Monthly Archive for November, 2009

Surprised By Tears

I’m a bit emotional…sappy, you might say. Sometimes it humors my wife as we’re watching TV together and the dramatic tear-jerking scene (it can be anything really…even a commercial) reaches out extracting my heart from its proper place and lodging it in my throat.

Screen shot 2009-11-30 at 10.57.52 AMI had one of those tearful moments as I drove to campus this morning. An NPR report came on the radio which involved a teen suicide cluster in Palo Alto, CA. You can find the actual report or even listen to it here.

Apparently, there have been four suicides at this particular commuter train railroad crossing in the past 6 months. What continued to capture my attention as I listened to the report was the response of the community and about 70 parents who began to volunteer for “Track Watch.”

I think this is a profound act of love and compassion…a true ‘standing in the gap’ for teens in this community who are tempted to solve temporary problems with a permanent solution. This is no miniscule effort on the part of these parents either, spending several hours at a time as guardians of such an abused place.

As my heart was aching for these students, parents, school, and community…I was also infused with hope. As we enter this season of Advent, I’m looking for glimmers of Gospel…and a bunch of parents guarding a railroad track until 1 AM every  night looks like Gospel to me.

Defining the “Win” in Campus Ministry

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Success? Winning? Progress?

In some areas, this is an easy concept to define. As I have been training for marathons and trying to drop some extra pounds, all I have to do is step on the scale to see if I am “winning.”  When it comes to ministry and people, success is a little more elusive.

Not too long ago I was part of a church staff that was engaging Andy Stanley’s book “7 Practices of Effective Ministry” and we spent a good bit of time trying to define the “Win.”  That process instigated some healthy discussions regarding our vision, allotment of resources, evaluating success, etc.  A typically frustrating conclusion I often came to during my 15 years of staff ministry (youth, worship, discipleship) was that the “win” was nearly always defined in terms of numbers, dollars, programming, etc. I would even say that my own ministry with middle and high school students was more often geared towards being attractional and programmatically impressive than it should have been.

As I contemplate the next 10 to 20 years of my life, vocation, and mission…I am determined not only to define success differently, but to engage in ministry and relationships differently.

Several weeks ago I was sharing this re-orientation towards discipleship and long-term transformation with my friend, Phil. He was asking some questions about what I was trying to accomplish in campus ministry here in Cincinnati. My attempt to articulate this model of ministry never seems as clear or adequate verbalized as it exists in my head. But within a few minutes I think I was able to convey my passion and commitment to pouring myself into a few with hopes to impact many over time.

Screen shot 2009-11-29 at 9.05.16 PMAnother friend in campus ministry is wrestling with the same issue just across the river at NKU. Aaron Klinefelter is director of the Wesley Foundation and you can track with his discussion here. (Isn’t this a great shot of him with his son?!)   As Aaron and I discussed the topic of success briefly, I was challenged by something he said which I think is very true. If we don’t define success in our campus ministry, someone else will define it for us. Whether that’s a supervisor, a board, students, or any number of other possibilities…we must be intentional about shaping and modeling campus ministry strategically, ESPECIALLY if we have a definition of success and faithfulness which is not the default understanding of numbers, budgets, and a full calendar.

I especially like Jim Musser’s comments about measuring success by the future. You can read his perspective over at the Heart of Campus Ministry Blog here.  Jim makes this statement early in his post,

“The success of any campus ministry is found in what its students are doing five, 10, 15 years in the future.”

That is definitely the approach to ministry I am taking for the next 15-20 years. My goal is to disciple 12 students each year…with hopes that 4-6 of those students really flourish and are spiritually transformed. (Obviously, I would hope for 12 of 12 to succeed…but we all know better than that, eh?!)  Ideally, those 4-6 students would be discipled in such a way that they would own the calling of disciple-maker themselves. If that pattern continued for even 3 or 4 years, it would dwarf the “success” of my first 15 years of staff ministry. That’s pretty exciting…and as I have been praying to have maximum Kingdom impact with my life…campus ministry is an answer to that prayer.

Thankgiving Week at UC

Screen shot 2009-11-28 at 4.39.18 PMWithin the culture and context of my own family and extended family, Thanksgiving is a big deal. It only took a couple of our 15 years together for my wife and I to discover the optimal system for dividing up holiday time between our families. On my side of the family tree…Thanksgiving has always been the big family gathering. There is always more great food, more family present, and more good will surrounding this holiday than any other. So typically, we spend 2-3 days with my parents and brothers, grandma, etc around the traditional Thursday celebration in late November.

One little bonus this year was running the Drumstick Dash in Indy on Thursday morning with my big brother, Bill, and his oldest daughter, Erin. The 4.5 trek around the Broadripple community in northwest Indy was Erin’s first official race while she was home from Hanover College.

After only one quarter on campus at the University of Cincinnati, I’d say it’s a pretty big week for Screen shot 2009-11-28 at 4.41.34 PMmany families. Several students left campus after only attending a handful of classes on Monday and Tuesday of the Thanksgiving week. I heard mention of professors canceling their Wednesday classes because they knew students were leaving campus early. Perhaps the only thing that kept the masses hanging around campus this past week was the big game against Illinois on “Black Friday” which was particularly ‘black’ for the fighting Illini (Bearcat Black!)

My campus ministry-mates at the Edge House were engaged in some great efforts of hospitality and compassion…serving up some delicious Thanksgiving meals for those in need. Even after only one quarter’s worth of ministry, I know the Edge House is making a great impact on the students, campus, and community. Being part of the Edge House while serving students via the CCO & Nazarene Church has been a great combination so far. And we’ve only just begun!